sweet fellowship.

i just had such a fun few hours. we had "ladies game night" at CCC tonite. all of a sudden i'm feeling that this blog post won't do it justice. oh well. here are some of the highlights:

• molly's super brute strength as she carried 40 lbs (ish) of drinks in at one time.
  
• meeting people that attend our church that i've never met before!
• pulling the "peaceful" card at the beginning of a game of apples to apples - appropriate considering the good gifts the Father has been giving me lately.
  
• drinking from red solo cups
• drinking cherry coke from previously mentioned cups
  
• bubbles....they are so spiritual
• eating only the green and pink starburst jellybeans
  
• meeting a vibrant & FABULOUS 87 year old that has more life and spunk than most 30 year olds i know. i would LOVE to look, act, feel, BE like Mrs. S 55+ years down the road...
• laughing. laughing and laughing.
• lindy. she's quite entertaining.
• hearing ladies talk positively about their husbands/marriage.
• hearing ladies talk positively about one another - bragging on each other, encouraging one another, building each other up
  
• hearing about grandkids loving to play with the "jiggly parts" of their grandmothers (i especially loved the "jello jello" remark)
• fellowship that didn't have an ounce of unhealthy competition or even hints of gossip.
  

the only thing that would have made it better is if all of the other ladies from CCC who i love and treasure (and all the ones i haven't had the privilege of meeting/getting to know) could have joined us!! maybe next time...

hotel california...friendship... & drug culture references...random ridiculousness.

it finally has a name - the way friendship with me works. it's just like that eagles' song talks about --"hotel california"...(i had this epiphany in an email i was responding to tonite)

"You can check-out any time you like, But you can never leave!"

(but really friendship with me is NOTHING like the song "hotel california." i just read the lyrics for the first time and now i want to know, what is colitas??)(but my advice, DON'T google it....trust me)(but just in case you were wondering, i think i found out that it's marijuana....)(boy, it was interesting to read the interpretations of that song. i think some of them may have had some access to some colitas while they were musing)(i also found out there's a website called straightdope.com i didn't click on that link.)(i ALSO found out what "spice" is from the TA Classroom Session at Hardaway today: man-made marijuana -- synthetic cannabis. I've learned more about drugs today than the rest of my life combined.)(and what was the other thing, molly? dirty sprite? whatever it's called, it's sprite mixed with cough syrup)(um...gross.)(aren't you all glad you're my friends so you can be a little more hip and with it in the realm of drug culture?)

back to hotel california and friendship with me - i just feel that it needs to be in writing somewhere (and this will be a repeat for some of you), once you're my friend, YOU ARE MY FRIEND...and no matter the time that passes (a day, a week, a year, a decade...a few decades...), i'm ready and willing to pick it back up.

So unless you straight up say something along the lines of "dianna, i don't want to be your friend anymore" then we're friends. And you have my permission and the complete freedom to know that we're friends and that an email/phone call/facebook message/stop by for a visit (but you've gotta come before june...or plan to buy a plane ticket to make the "drop by" happen) are all perfectly acceptable and would be gratefully received - never awkward or weird or unwelcome.

(and just in case anyone is wondering, this is NOT directed towards anyone in particular. absolutely not. that's not how i roll! if i wanted to say it to someone in particular, i would pull out a cute notecard, write "dear blankity blank" and proceed to share how much i love you and miss you and really want to stay connected and stick a stamp on it and mail it :))

raw and honest thought: this is one of THE most ridiculous posts i've ever written. i'm really tempted to never publish it...(but obviously i did). (aren't you glad?)

off the top of my head

for "thankful thursday" i usually just type up things that i've listed in my thankful journal for the week...my journal is not present at the moment...so i'm going to wing it:

• the "search" bar - just type in what you're looking for and more than likely, it'll pop up on the screen. amazing.
• when the weather is perfect for eating outside (and getting to eat amazing food outside with my best friend)
• tuesday was the last time i'll do quarterly payroll reports for TAs.
  
• thinking about the fact that whoever does the next quarterly payroll reports will be "ok" -- even if i can't train them (ie, walk through it step by step sitting side by side), God's going to take care of them (His training/provision is significantly better than mine. that's for sure.)(i'm leaving pretty decent directions...and i'll be available for questions...that's about all i can offer).
• anna justice's amazing personality and babysitting skillz
• the quotes & verses beth sent me - so many of the quotes were things i had written in my journal...i love being "on the same page" with my dear friend.
• suh-weet trip to warrenton (the car rides were super peaceful...bowling was fun! had a good conversation with my mom. got to eat my dad's fried chicken)
• peace. unexplainable, trustworthy, straight-from-God peace.
• celebrating nick and eli's birthdays! goodness those guys are special to me.
• emma in her cute little chinese outfit
  
• 3 sweet little girls that i had the privilege of sharing my early morning with...those wells' girls are something special. (so glad the eldest of the wells' girls is on her way home from india right now!!)(my "gladness" is probably next to nothing compared to chad's!!)
  
• sweet meal and fellowship Tuesday night at community group - nicole markert never ceases to amaze with her cooking abilities!
• molly white's thoughtfulness and generosity...another thing that never ceases to amaze me.

there may be an addendum if i check my journal and there's anything else worth sharing...

in honor of my best friend and his 32nd birthday....32 favorites

some of my favorite things about nick (in no particular order - except the last 2...which are really the first 2):

1. He makes me feel special and beautiful and valuable.
2. He gives me way more credit than I deserve.
3. He thanks me for doing things that I consider "what I'm supposed to do" (and what alot of others consider as "thankless" jobs because they don't get the gift of a thank you).
4. He doesn't yell at me (or anyone)(I really don't like to be yelled at...who does!? I don't even like to be honked at....). And he doesn't "scare" me on purpose (you know....jump out and say "boo" just for fun...or creep outside a window and tap on it....or anything ridiculous like that. some people think that's funny. i don't.)(in fact, he's so thoughtful, he'll intentionally be loud so that he doesn't sneak up on me on accident....)
   
5. My family (dad, mom, sister, brothers, etc.) loves him.
6. He's smart and has a good vocabulary.
7. He does things with excellence - even when 'man' wouldn't expect excellence, Nick still does things excellently (as to the Lord...and not unto man)
8. He plays with our children
9. He prays for our children.
10. He tucks me in at night.
11. He'll hug me or hold me anytime I need/want him to.
12. He's not afraid to cry
13. He's not afraid of me crying.
14. He remembers and celebrates all of our anniversaries - 1st kiss, 1st date, wedding (we don't always celebrate it but he knows the date of our engagement)(he's faster to answer questions about "us" and our timeline than I am....I usually have to think about it)
15. He didn't kiss me until 9 months after we started dating (I can't explain how sweet it was to not even have to think about the kissing and stuff -- though that's CERTAINLY ENJOYABLE and I love every kiss we get to share -- knowing that he wasn't going to kiss me in the early days of dating allowed us to build a strong foundation on so much more than physical interaction!)
16. He taught me to drive a manual car (he very patiently taught me as we went over the speed bumps at shorter college)
17. He's really good with words - especially written words. And he generously shares his words with so many - me, our kids, our co-workers, our friends, others that receive letters/emails from him...
18. He is so capable -he's so good at so many things....a Renaissance man (I don't even know if I'm spelling that correctly...but I bet he does). I am convinced he can do pretty much anything he puts his mind to.
    
19. He doesn't mind that I'm not into shopping and style and such
    
20. He's not concerned with the opinions of others (in either direction - high or low!)
21. He's an amazingly excellent gift giver. He should write a book for men on how to give their wives/girlfriends/special someone's fantastic gifts. 99% of the time the gifts are not something you can get in a store....
    
22. He takes the trash out without being reminded
23. He loves cherry coke as much as I do.
24. He's not afraid to say hard things if he knows it's for the good of our relationship
25. He's athletic and in shape - but without being fanatical about it or addicted to it
26. He's "tidy" - not one to leave wet towels or underwear or any of the other stereotypical things strewn about on the floor.
27. He's very organized and an excellent record keeper
28. He's committed to saying what he means and meaning what he says -- to not being passive aggressive/manipulative with his words
29. He doesn't talk bad about others/gossip -- even when I really think a situation would "call for it"/it would totally be "justified", he just doesn't - and that's admirable.
30. He spends money wisely - manages our budget, considers purchases before making them, doesn't buy on impulse, looks for deals, etc.
31. My 2nd most favorite thing: Nick is who he says he is -and he is who he appears to be. The person you see up on stage or leading a Bible study or worshipping is the very same man who lives within the walls of 2215 19th Ave. Nick lives a life of integrity and authenticity.
32. My 1st most favorite thing: Nick loves his God with all of his heart, soul, mind and strength. and THAT is at the core of everything else that makes him so amazing and so incredible.
    

i am one blessed woman.

thank you, God, for the gift of nick and for the gift of our marriage and friendship....

wait, there's more

• there are only 2 emails in my inbox. (quite the accomplishment considering there was something like 230 at the beginning of this week....just lots of things that needed an action step - or that needed to be printed and filed - things that needed to get done but i hadn't had the chance to do...now we're down to 2! and those are all do-able, too - just not quite yet...each one needs another piece of information or 2 in order to be taken care of and then they shall be DELETED, too!)(but by that point there may be more that need attention...not sure it'll ever be empty...and that's ok!)
  
• trash service. it's pretty amazing that i can just haul cans of trash to the street and it gets whisked away.
• the kids that pray on ihop.org -- wow!
• kim's buffalo chicken dip. i had lunch at 10:30 this morning...i couldn't wait any longer!!! (but now it's all gone...)(btw - i'm trying to add to kim's blog shout outs this week)
  
• making flags with carey. it was fun! not to mention i just love spending time with her.
  
• a flexible "lunch hour"...i can use 15 minutes here and 15 minutes there...and 15 minutes later (and still have 15 minutes left over to play with)
• the TA "25th Anniversary" stickers - it's fun to seal envelopes with them
• a cup of colorful pens
• caroline's hair is tangle free (or at least it was last night) (we don't thoroughly brush it nearly enough!!)(and getting it to the 'tangle free' moment was less than enjoyable...but we made it....and it's so pretty!)
  
• the thoroughness and efficiency of Joy Crumpton....this lady has always impressed me...and now, even more.
  

many thanks

• eli & caroline's obstacle course
• how much my family loves poppyseed chicken
• having all the ingredients to make aforementioned recipe (without even "trying" to have all the ingredients)(i love it when that happens for any recipe....)
  
• buying stamps at 6:10am (from the machine inside the lobby at the Milgen Road PO)
• the stash of gummi bears in my desk at work (thanks, kaci)
• the stash of gummi bears in my kitchen cabinet (thanks, molly)
• running into the Meeks Family at the playground
  
• eli reading his Bible
• "target spree" with emma (leftover giftcard from her birthday! our purchases: popcorn combo, buddy fruit, goldfish, toothpaste, dental floss, chocolate covered espresso beans!)
• our Mercy Ships support letters have been sent
  
• "your best efforts are trusting me and living close to me." - jesus calling
• NO LINE at the post office yesterday!
• helpful children (especially with the TA bulkmail)
• janell nielsen's smiles & laughter during my pre-crave routine
  
• thoughtful gifts from a thoughtful friend (can't WAIT to use the cinnabon creamer....)
  
• being able to reconcile TA bank statements at home (and the way the printer just comes alive when i plug in at the office afterwards...)
  
• clean bath mats - they feel like they're new!! (thanks, nick!)
• a husband who clean bath mats, brings me butterfinger's chicken, does laundry, leads our children in cleaning up and about a bazillion other wonderful things...he is incredible.
  

nothingness.

i just whittled by inbox down from 202 to 25. felt the need to celebrate that...and didn't want to put it on facebook. this was my next best option.

is there really such a thing as underwater hockey? (i saw a comment about a friend of a friend coming to atlanta in april for an underwater hockey tournament) what in the world?

love that we spent 80% of today's daylight hours outside...

sometimes i just have to say things out loud with the hopes that they'll get out of my head.